Being made after the image of God has it benefits and seemingly some downfalls unless one learns how to master their inherited abilities.  With the coming power of new energies into the planet, which is entering in through intervals of light, humanity is experiencing several shifts and influxes.  This is due to the preparation for the fulfillment of prophecy of the new heaven and earth.  For a while, I had forgotten about this until Archangel Gabriel showed me this in a vision one day.  All I could do was stare with amazement and I remember saying to myself – wow, it’s real!

 

            Before the fall (yes we fell down into material form) we were aware of all things at once and the presence and existence of all things at once.  We were able to manifest our abilities to shift our consciousness to where we needed to be.  As a child, I remember being taught in Sunday school that God was in everything. I remember asking how this was so, but never receiving an explanation.  I was also told that God knows the thoughts of humans.  I remember thinking, but how is this so?

 

            It is for this reason that I am allowed to and have been instructed to share this information with you – the reader.  The physical body can only maintain a certain amount of high frequencies.  Holding high frequencies is of no easy matter – trust me on this one.  It is an unexplainable experience and feeling.  If you are open to receive the energy that will pour into your body, especially if a large amount comes in at once, and you happen to be unable to process it as quickly as you receive it – your body will produce involuntary movements.  For some, the frequencies become monotone in sound and produce various speeds of light that circulate throughout the body and take form on the vocal chords by using the sound frequency.  This is more commonly referred to as “speaking in tongues”.  It is a star language and any “tongue” or language will come forth depending on your place of origin going all the way back to your ancestral bloodline, human and celestial.  As you elevate and shift consciousness into your higher selves, it becomes more galactical and calls upon the power from your Soul energy. It opens up the portals of heaven around you and allows the Angels of Light to come and assist you or to work through you if you happen to be a healer.

 

            Not digressing to far from the subject at hand, as the earth takes in more and more of this new frequency, the light bodies in and around humans takes on form and begins to wake up.  Many people have reported having a vision of themselves somewhere else that may come as a flash either before sleep or while engaging in waking activity.   The restoration of the light bodies is the awakening of them and this is your boarding pass into universal travel.  The Light Bodies are alive and conscious.  It houses Galactic or Light Intelligence which is beyond the realm of human thinking.  It also attunes you to Christ Consciousness which is also the source for the Universal Mind.  The Universal Mind is where all thoughts are harvested and this is the place where they descend until they reach the realm of Collective Consciousness around planet Earth.

 

            The more you are open to receive more and more light energy, positive energy, or love energy, the more you become aware of those things that have been hindering you in your life.  [If you say to yourself “well I am just fine and I have no issues” then you must be an active Guru or Avatar walking on the planet! Everyone has many things to work on as the process of evolution depends upon one’s self development.  It will end on this earth when you die on this earth and even still it will continue in spirit form.] The body will constantly put in your conscious mind those things that have been weighted within the subconscious mind which have been preventing you from recalling who you are.  Releasing negative and limiting beliefs allows you to access higher forms of consciousness that exists within your Higher Selves.  The Higher Selves are the reason that you are Omnipresent.  It is through the subconscious mind that we are allowed to travel as this is also one with our soul and spirit.  The subconscious mind is attuned to the Higher Mind of Christ as Christ Consciousness returns you to that state at which you see no separation between mind and matter and spirit and energy.  All is one with the One.  As you connect with your Higher Selves and the consciousness that it possesses, you become more aware of your omnipresence.  You can re-call your dreams as this is simply a figment of your imagination.  Yet this “figment” is not imaginary.  It is a host of alternate realities that you have created to play out the unresolved issues of the subconscious mind.  You interact with other sentient beings that help you play out your role in the universe.  They help you to come to a greater understanding of the power you have and had.  The realization of these dreams is to help you return to that power.  It takes place in the 4th Dimension of Time. Several dimensions of time exists.  This one in particular is in between our world of reality and the 5th plane of Existence. 

 

            The purpose of the dream re-call is to help you gain power over the subconscious mind and what it is you are playing out.  As you attune to the higher frequencies of light, you begin to ascend and elevate your consciousness and your dream state becomes much more spiritual in nature, meaning you work with different light beings and your soul family begins to assist you with playing out the human consciousness and returning it back to a state with divine intention.  (You will see more Angelic beings and even interact with Stars.) It must be attuned to the Christ Mind frequency in order for you to enter the gates of heaven.   The more you can hold this frequency through your light bodies, the more and more dreams you will be able to recall, the more information you will get about yourself, and the more you can transcend this illusionary reality.  You begin to see what is real and you must relearn how to operate with the awareness of your omnipresent self within the One.  A prime example: when I first activated my lower light body, I was able to recall 12 dreams.  At that time as I was early on with my studies on Light Energy and working with my Angels, I didn’t understand that I needed to do this every day.  A few years later, as I am doing the work now, I am able to recall 6 to 7 dreams.

 

            Talking about spirituality is one thing, but what is your purpose for pursuing it? You have to want more than just having a spiritual experience otherwise you will become satisfied with feeling odd sensations of floating, feeling light, and feeling good.  This merely cannot be the end of your travels.  You must take it yet further.  Go outside the realm of your comfort and seek how to manifest the god in you.  Do not get this confused with being a tyrant on any realm but come to a greater understanding as to what God is in your life and how you co-create with It.  Understand the laws of co-creation and there you will find understanding to the universal law that is prevalent in all that we do.

let's talk about the subconscious mind and how things of your past may be affecting you now. This is beyond negative and limiting beliefs. After doing several sessions on people and teaching healing workshops - it has come to my attention that certain parts of our lives have taken on real live conscious. These "conscious" forms can become self hazardous as they embody all of the trials and tribulations that we have experienced throughout this life time.

For example: If you have lived a troubled childhood, then that part of you that holds the memories and emotions of the events will take on its on form or life. This brings newness to the idea of Inner child work as what we do during the private sessions is to remove this conscious of your troubled childhood.

The real live consciousness doesn't just hold on to childhood, but it also holds on to your teenage years, young adult life, and any other part of you where you can make the statement "that was the old me" or "I am not like that any more".

It is amazing what is found after working with Light Energy, because this is the avenue through which these forms of consciousness were exposed. Working with Light Energy and developing the Light Bodies (which is the blue print for our divinity) gets to the root of things. It goes deeper than what is blocked and stored in our meridians, chakras, and aura. This is that part of you that exists in the present, past, and future simultaneously! It is all through the consciousness.

While working with my clients, as they are re-calling events from their lives, there is always a conscious shift that takes place while they are retelling the events. We often "tap" the thymus gland to get them to return to the present moment and to come out of the conscious memory they have just recalled. Likewise, the shifting of energy and evolution of humanity is something that takes place in the subconscious mind. We exist on different planes of existence (heavens) through the subconscious mind. As you clear the emotional blocks (which is just stagnant energy) you naturally begin to develop more into your divine self. In other words, you become more consciously aware and you merge with that level of consciousness.

You have several Higher Selves (not one) that exist on each plane of existence and each one holds a level of consciousness. As you do light body work, you merge with these higher levels of consciousness that remove you from human thinking and bring you back to Light Intelligence and God Consciousness (a/k/a Christ Consciousness). This is the removal of the illusion of separation between you and God. In this state of mind, all things are one, and you know it and feel it.

Weekly Exercise:

Focus on your heart, visualize pink or rose while you inhale. See the breath spiraling into your heart. When you exhale, see that breath going throughout your body. Do this for 10 to 15 minutes a day.

The subconscious mind has the ability to relocate itself at any point in time because it is connected to the greater mind of Christ, also known as the Collective Mind of Civilization. When a person decides that they no longer want to act present or be present for the events taking place because it is too much for them to handle (i.e. too much energy is coming into the body and they are unable to express it in a timely and calming fashion). They are in fact making a decision to do nothing with the energy/emotion that is flowing into their body. They want it to stop -- literally. In their mind, they may be saying, hey, I didn’t sign up for this or this is not how I intended things to go, but in reality they do have the ability to handle the situation, they just don’t know how to use the tools they already have.

When a person shuts down emotionally, they are in fact shutting down there Heart Center. Their Heart Center is their direct connection to the God/Life principle in their life. It deals with their ability to feel their connection to God and the presence of God in their life. It also deals with the transmutation of lower vibrational frequencies that no longer serve a purpose. Without the activation of the Heart Center energy, energy cannot properly flow into the heart canal or the Heart Center from the light body. The reason this is important is because the light body translates the Codes of Light. The Codes of Light are the energetic pathways to self discovery of ones divinity. The opening and closing of these channels of light determines the flow of energy into the cycle of vibrational magnitude for the individual. In other words – how they handle an influx of energy. If the body says “I cannot handle this right now” it is no different than the body shutting down when it is trying to chew or digest food.. It is a very vital part of our development – our ability to digest light energy that is.

In the circle of life, all things come back from where they came. Energy is recycled. This too is a process that is governed by the heart chakra. The heart chakra is different than the heart space center yet still vitally important because if this is shut down then the Heart Center will not have the ability to open or activate. The heart space center solidifies the magnitude of energy we receive into our heart chakra. It also regulates the outpouring of the Goddess/Mother Energy into our life -- in other words the Yin of the yin/yang. There is a balance that is expected to take place here within the heart of the earth sometime soon and it is important for everyone to have the heart space centers aligned with the new energies of light as their will be an influx of Goddess energy coming our way.

Our divinity is determined by our ability to master the lower senses of the physical body. Without this ability, the human mind stays in an animalistic state, gratifying the lower senses of man.  The lower senses of man have no responsibility to the Higher Forces of Light other than self-survival or preservation or animal instincts. The human cannot advance nor evolve into a higher state of being so long as it is operating from the lower senses. It will in fact begin to degenerate at a time when the energy of the planet is supremely high and still evolving. The individual either comes with the Common Collective of Light or they fall to the way side like ashes of a meteor star.

 Ultimately, what is being said here is that in order for you to embrace your God-Like transition, you must open up and feel God in your heart. It is the point of transfiguration for the soul body and the soul mind. It is the point of no return for those individuals who are ready to cross over and do their work on the other side in different states of being.  

 

So many people have ideals as to what power is, how to go about getting it, and how to use it. The issue is that everyone is operating out of fear and pain. Personal power is associated with the 3rd chakra (major energy center in the body) or Manipura as it is actually called which means "the city of jewels". Herein lies the answer to many things because the 3rd chakra also governs self esteem, will power, and the ego. The organs of the body that are associated with this chakra are: solar plexus, abdomen, upper intestines, liver, gall bladder, stomach, kidney, pancreas, spleen, adrenal system, and middle spine. Physical ailments associated with it are: ulcers, irritable bowel syndrome, constipation, heartburn, diabetes, diarrhea, indigestion, anorexia, bulimia, and hepatitis. The challenges associated with this chakra are: self-confidence, self-respect, competence and skills in the outer world, substance abuse, aggression, defensiveness, making decisions, and competitiveness.

With all the above being said, how many people do you know, especially at the companies you work for be "power trippin" or are "micro-managers" - the bullies of corporate America? How many people do you know that love confrontation or gotta be in control of everything? These type of people have an overactive or blown out chakra (meaning too much energy coming in that point of the body before they can properly transmute, circulate, and distribute it). What about people that are "yes" people who don't know how to say no which means that they are in a constant state of self-sacrifice because they are putting everyone's needs before their own. Then you have those individuals who don't speak their mind and suffer in silence.  Others operate in a state of indecisiveness which is a reflection of one's self esteem.

All of the imbalances began with events, circumstances, and inherited beliefs from ancestors, past lives, and current events. The events and circumstances formed beliefs within that person which created a shift of energy into a lower level of conscious thinking called NEGATIVITY OR LIMITING BELIEFS. People with this energy generally do the things they do because they have allowed sources outside of themselves to define power and success for them, which in turn has effected their ego and self esteem - but this may have been damaged in the first place. Because thoughts and emotions are pure energy, it is important to note that all imbalances FIRST BEGIN in the energy bodies of the individual. When events or circumstances are not addressed in a manner where it helps the person to transform the experience and the energy related to that experience into a higher vibration, then the person struggles and eventually adapts to that change by incorporating coping mechanisms which they now accept as their true personality.

No matter who I am working on or what belief we are working on pulling from the subconscious mind, personal power issues always surface. The person doesn't come to me and say - hey I want to work on personal power issues, it is usually something else and after we dig for the bottom belief of the matter at hand, we find thoughts in the subconscious such as: I cannot use my personal power, If I use my personal power, I will lose my family and loved ones, I am not worthy of power, If I use my power I will abuse it, Power is evil, Power hurts people, Nobody in my family uses their power so I can't use mine, I will not be accepted if I use my power, and the list goes on. The individual is not aware of the beliefs of course and generally have a surprised reaction. Once these beliefs are removed as well as the many variations of power issues, the person can operate in their power and understand what it is according to the Creator's definition, perspective, and understanding.

When the person is operating in their true power they are then able to access the higher states of divinity and express it in this lifetime. This allows the individual to reach their highest optimal level of human potential meaning they can now fulfill their life's purpose without the extra emotional/mental baggage. Coming from a place of power such as this shifts many things within an individual's life. If the person is spiritually inclined, then they go through training from the Creator/Life as to how to use their power and what it is. One learns how to shift the energy within their home with a single intent and command. One shifts the energy with any circumstance by decisions instantly. All of the things that seemed impossible or out of reach - just simply no longer are.

In the world of activities that we see around us, the need to get over on people, control others and everything, run scams, manipulate situations (all acts of fear/pain) begin to dissipate. A person comes to a place where they no longer "need" to go to a lecture, sermon, workshop, or retreat. The person comes to a place where they no longer "need" to have a library of books/material that they have yet to apply. The person comes to a place where they no longer "need" to do ceremonies or rituals. This is because they understand that the most important part of Power, and what some may consider an audacity of Power, is commanding the Power of God that dwells within to create, move, manifest, reveal, unveil, transmute, and transform change in their life.

Humans did not create Power, therefore they cannot give it nor can they take it away, nor can they define it.  The Source and Center of All Creation shifts your mind (which is throughout your body) into higher frequencies so that you can dwell in the place of divinity within your own being - which is the true source of heaven. No doubt this is transcendence and it doesn't come with doing a couple of ceremonies, chanting, and breathing. It comes with hard work, dedication, tenacity, courage, humbleness, love, love, love, and lots of determination to face those things that you have accepted and labeled as "the norm" or "life" or "this is just how I am".

This, my brother and sisters, is how one goes about unlocking the code of life, one by one. The body is a circuit of energy that operates on frequencies and the circulation and transmutation of such. Ignorance of this fact will have you dealing with an influx of energies that you don't even know how to digest and direct. You see, the other part of the 3rd chakra also deals with changing dense energy (matter) into light frequencies. The dense energy is the food and emotions you digest. Many people who are emotional eaters are not aware of the Enteric Nervous System that is located in the digestive tract. Many people are also not aware that the first organ in the body that is formed is the colon (large intestine). The Enteric Nervous System has been labeled as the second brain and recent studies in science are saying that it may be more in control than the brain in the head. In addition to this, also located in the 3rd chakra region, is the celiac artery. This is an artery that contributes to getting blood from the heart to other parts of the body. With this in mind, it is of no wonder that all issues dealing with power, self esteem, and ego are directly connected to matters of the heart (4th chakra). Now you can see how the fear and the pain sets in.

The heart center shuts down or gets blown out from emotional trauma caused by events, circumstances, and ESPECIALLY EMPATHY. The person becomes emotionally constipated, trapped in a prison of mental disarray labeled as fear, confusion, suffering, and pain amongst other things. During my Theta sessions, while we are doing the "digging" process, we often touch matters of the heart. This is where the tears come in. See they think they are just gonna sit down with me and tell me all about their problems, but that is not how the Creator operates. The Creator unravels the mysteries of the mind, one by one, taking a person from the conscious state into the subconscious revelations of what has been there all along. They go from the Beta, Alpha, to Theta brain wave states. The subconscious mind will try to shut down, creating many forms of resistance from pain to physical detachment (person has left the body) to avoid dealing with the belief that needs to be removed. We call this COPING as in the person is reverting to the program it has created to maintain the imbalanced energies known as pain, suffering, fear, and confusion. It is no different than a person who is addicted to pork ribs. You know it (the pork) is full of parasites, yet because it tastes good and it is what you are accustomed to eating, you say you won't stop until you die. In this case, the pork is the pain and fear, and because you are accustomed to it, you eat a full plate of it with toppings (variations of circumstance).  AND THIS IS WHERE THE FALSE SENSE OF POWER SETS IN (the place you THINK you are operating from).

So long as a person comes from the above state of consciousness, they will always be in emotional chains of bondage, detached from their body, as the mind is constantly shifting consciousness caused by the emotional triggers of pain and suffering which constantly makes the person re-call their unfavorable experience of the past. It is the constant re-calling of the pain/fear that keeps shifting the conscious and keeps the person detached from themselves. It is of no coincidence that we use terms like "I just lost it" or "you didn't seem like yourself" or "they took me somewhere else with that" or "she is very sensitive (great amount of energy contained within a past circumstance) on that subject" or "why are you so emotional (great amount of energy stuck and trying to ex-press (release) itself)".

We talk in these terms with ignorance, passing judgments of how we think things and people should be when all we need to do is focus on getting ourselves together. It is not a game of trivial pursuit. It is not even a competition. It is a journey with many adventures that heighten the human experience. A journey of Soul evolution if you will. A journey that is to re-mind you of your true place of Divinity.

I remember when I was first starting my journey on spiritual development and personal growth. I didn't understand why other people were not into this. In my mind, I thought personal development and spiritual growth should be priorities in life. But I quickly found for some people, it simply is not nor will it ever be.

During the time I live in New York and Atlanta, I met several people who were very knowledgeable of their culture and spiritual practices, their profession, and some life lessons. Yet all of these people were struggling or suffering on some level with something. Shoot, even I was at the time. I had gone from being religious to spiritual and including holistic health with my spiritual practices as the word "whole" comes from "holy".

I have always been heavy into prayer and worship, chanting mantras, energy work, and meditation. I combined all of these things with a healthy diet, respect of earth, and releasing heavy or negative emotions. This really did make a difference in my life, but I had no idea what lie ahead for me. All I knew was that I wanted to go deeper and gather more tools as I knew it was needed after a friend of mine passed away last year.

I've done positive reprogramming, canceling out negative statements, spiritual ceremonies, rituals, hypnotherapy, sweat lodges, and my list goes on. Now, today it is something different and I realize that in order for a person to get to the point where they are ready to try something "different" they have to be courageous enough to let go of their coping mechanisms -- the things that have been getting them through in life.

Everything that God led me to do has prepared me for where I am today. Everything. Consistency has gone to another level within because the desire to be free from all imbalances and truly be a vessel of honor is great. I can't stop. I can't even tell you how many Theta sessions I have done on myself all I know is that I didn't stop at the first one. I didn't give up. I didn't give into fear. I truly let go and let God and it is an honor to be able to provide a service that truly helps people.

I give thanks for my life, for the lives of those that have called on me for Theta DNA sessions, and for all of these new people that are finding me on the internet. First, everyone I worked on was friends or referral from friends. Now it's people I don't know that live on the other side of the country and they are coming back for more sessions and even providing referrals and powerful testimonies. All thanks be to the Most High Creator of All that Exists - the Highest Truth that exists.

Witness my re-birthing

Your dreams are a manifestation of all the past lives that you have lived and all that you have not resolved that is stored in the subconscious mind. The subconcious mind is located throughout the body and it communicates to us in many different ways.

If you have questions about life and why things happen or are allowed then this is the first place to look. A few years ago I had many unanswered questions like what on earth is a chakra and what do you mean I have one? and why does God allow bad things to happen to me? or why do I keep getting involved in relationships that are not healthy? I got my answers which were stored in the subconscious mind.

For every belief that you have, it is associated with a system. That system is divided up into 4 parts: Core level - everything you have learned from the time of your birth until now; Genetic level - everything and I do mean everything that all of your ancestors belief - for all life times!!!; History level - oaths, vows, karmic contracts, trauma, lessons learned and so on including all past lives in human bodies and spirit bodies, work done as guardian angels, soul fragments and so on; soul level - the real you that continues on after the human body dies.

Regardless of what religion teaches, everyone has free will and this is why people go through what they go through. Your life is going by the programs that you have stored in your subconscious mind. With every decision you make, it affects your destiny. Your decisions are based off of what is in your subconscious mind.

When you remove those things that no longer serve you, the things that have kept you from experiencing your birthright or divinity come forth. The body has an integration period which is usually only a few days or less. After you go through this process then you are able to decree the things that you want to manifest in your life.

Your Quality of Thoughts Determine Your Quality of Life

So are you where you want to be in life? Better yet, are you doing what you thought you would be doing in life at your age? What do you think is holding your back? I'll tell you what's holding you back - IT'S YOUR THOUGHTS!!!

Right now, every thing you have ever prayed and asked God (or whomever you believe in) for - is right before you. Yet, if you do not know how to use the tools, don't have the drive for the tools, are afraid of the tools, etc.. then you will never progress and be successful. You can increase the quality of life that you live simply by removing any and all limiting beliefs, fears, grudges, resentments, or regrets and more.

I would love to introduce you to something that has changed my life so much so that I will never go back to doing the type of therapeutic work that I did before.

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AND SHE CRIES OUT WITH FRUSTRATION!!!

“I'm so tired. I want to go to sleep but I can't because I know if I don't get
this work done, then I will remain in my current situation and I want so
much more for myself and my family. I am a single mother and right now
it is just me and my children. I don't get help from anyone and I have had
to become the mother and the father. I'm just exhausted and I wish I had
help. I wish something in my life would change and I don't know how
much more of this that I can take. What keeps me going is the fact that if I
give up, then no one will be here to take care of my kids. I'm so exhausted.
God help me. What do I need to do. When are my prayers going to be
answered? How much longer do I have to stay in super woman mode? I
can't find a man that will treat me right, let alone accept my children as
his own. Every time I turn around there is something going wrong in my
life. I can't count on anyone in my family. They don't even want to be
bothered by their own children. Is this what my life is supposed to be
about? I've always wanted more, so much more for myself, but I'm not
sure how to go about getting it and when I think I know how to go about
getting it, things don't go exactly as planned. It always seems like the very
things I want or need are just out of my reach. I don't feel good about
myself. I don't like the way I look. These kids are driving me crazy and I
need help. I'm tired... I'm tired.”

Ever found yourself or someone you know say something similar to the above?

Life can seem rough and challenging and often times, it's hard to know where to
turn for help. You can talk to your friends about what's going on in your life, but
eventually, they get tired of hearing you. If they are helping you, then you know that the
help will only last for so long. Yet everyone always seems to have something to say
about how you do things. Not enough of that or too much of this. Have you ever just felt
like saying "shut up and just let me be"?

See the thing is that we cannot expect other people to be able to help us in the
midst of their own misery or disappointments. A lot of people are walking around in life,
holding on to the things that have hurt them the most. A lot of people in life are holding
on to old grudges and judgments against people from their past because they feel that
somebody owes them something. Somebody should did such and such for them. But
when, just when are you going to take responsibility for what you have created in your
life? When are you going to stop crying, pick up your feelings from the ground and take
control of your life? Let's get one thing straight, it's not going to happen by you feeling
sorry for yourself. It's not going to happen by you staying on the phone for hours and
hours at a time, yapping with your friends and gossiping about others. It's not going to
come by laziness or the oh whoa me syndrome neither. Your life change comes by you
having the courage to stand up to yourself and claim what is rightfully yours.

Your change comes through the God-given power that dwells within you. Your
change comes by the grace and the favor that God has granted you to use your own free
will. God did not give you the Spirit of Fear, but the Spirit of Power and of Sound Mind
and of Good Judgment of the things that are yet to come. If you continue to dwell on the
things that hurt you the most in life, taking your frustrations out on all of your children
and the men you have slept with, then you will get nowhere.

Oh, and speaking of men in your life, if you don't have your stuff together, just
why would he want to be with a woman like you? Are you sloppy? Clean? Persistent with
your dreams and goals in life? Do you have temperance, patience, compassion for
YOURSELF FIRST and then others? Do you act with wisdom or discernment or honest?
If not, then how do you expect God to bring to you what it is you need? All things do
come to pass sooner or later. However, the longer you take to get yourself together, the
longer it is going to take for your birthright and your blessings to come to you.

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Many times throughout our life, we find that we end up repeating certain patterns,
certain patterns that may not serve us in an ideally favorable way. We meet people in
different scenarios and different life experiences hoping for something new and exciting,
but instead, get dealt a bad deck of cards, or so we believe. Why do I always get the
men/women that treat me like crap? Why do I always get the men/women that don’t
support me and my dreams? Why do I always get the men/women that only want me for
my money? All of these are questions that are commonly asked, yet the person asking the
question usually fails to look within them to figure out what beliefs they have that are
attracting those same people over and over and over again.

The core issue is that everybody is looking for love. The problem is that most
people don’t know how to receive love or express love. As a matter of fact, some don’t
even understand what love is. All they know is that they want to experience it and share
it with someone. Some people think that love is an emotion, while others think it is an
experience. I had the unique experience of learning about this subject from my guiding
angels and Mama Earth. It was the most beautiful experience I could recall.

Several years ago, while vacationing in the Virgin Islands, I had awakened to a
beautiful sunny morning as you could imagine. It was my first trip outside of America
and I was overwhelmed by the beauty of what I had seen. I remember standing on this
roof top, overlooking the ocean. It was kind of cloudy and raining. For the first time in
my life, I could see the rain clouds and I watched them as they spread scattered showers
over the other islands. As simple as it sounds, it was the first time I remember taking
deep breaths and admiring the beauty the lie before me. From the ocean, to the islands, to
the clouds, trees, and flowers, I began giving thanks to the Holy Creator for what I saw.

Yet something happened to me right at that instant... I began to cry, not of sorrow or
sadness, but a joyful and peaceful cry. I felt my heart get warm and the warmness spread
throughout my body. I felt a deep sense of peace that I had never felt and I felt
something greater that words cannot even express. This “something” is what I would
later learn is called The Creator/God or Love/Life. You see, what we have done as
people is to try to take something without measure and limits and personify it within
individuals and then expect for them to be able to supply what The Creator always
supplies. God showed me that there are different aspects of itself that people choose to
experience. The experience is largely determined by the individual’s mode of expression.
The expression is determined by the complex belief system. The belief system is passed
down from our parents, from our ancestors, past lives, karma, and our soul amongst other
things.

Our belief system is stored in various places throughout our body, but mainly the
DNA and our subconscious mind. Herein lays the answer to the question: Why do I
attract the same type of man/woman in a relationship? After being in a relationship, if
one does not take the time to remove unwanted emotions from that experience, then the
emotional impression that is established or created between the two will remain.

This emotional impression affects the energy of the individual. The energy of the person
has already established life patterns that influence what they attract or don’t attract to
themselves. Depending on the conditions of the last relationship, a person may or may
not be willing to let go of that other person (emotionally and mentally) because they want
to be able to recall the memories of the good times they had with that person or the love
they shared between each other. In doing this, they are reinforcing the other person’s
energy that still remains in their space. What most are not aware of is that they don’t
have to go through the other person to “feel” love. They don’t have to try so hard to
experience it and to give it or share it. When one comes out of a relationship, this is the
perfect time for them to spend temporary time alone for reconciliation. So what is one
reconciling? They are reconciling those parts of themselves that they have offered to the
other person that allowed them to share love. Love or The Creator/God animates all life
by expressing Itself through us. Once it enters us (and this happens constantly) we
choose how we are going to direct it and express it. When we don’t have someone in our
intimate space to share it with or express it to, then we recycle it in the world around us.
This is what helps us to become whole again. When we are not busy feeling sorry for
ourselves or tangled in the web of self-sabotage, we can receive many messages of light,
direction, and inspiration. We can see how our life is changing. If we can agree to get to
that point in life and not hold on to past relationships or the drama or trauma associated
with them, then we can move on to the next chapter and prepare ourselves to receive the
new love that awaits us to take us to our highest level of being.

If all of the above is ignored, then what you are thinking about or dwelling on will
shift the Divine Love that enters your body and manifest on one end of the spectrum of
emotions. The emotions are what will generate a certain type of vibe or frequency that
will determine the type of individuals you attract in your life. You will want to go around
certain people, listen to particular music, eat specific foods, and go to specific places. In
other words you will be drawn or attracted to certain things as they are to you. Now, this
will happen whether you take out time for yourself or not. The difference will be in what
and/or whom you attract to yourself.

SOME OTHER POINTS TO TAKE INTO CONSIDERATION:

You Believe You Must Go Through This
For everything that we do, there is always an underlying reason or a key belief, as
we like to call them in Theta Healing. You see, you have these belief programs that are
running in your subconscious like the hard drive on your computer. These key beliefs of
yours go all the way back to your childhood, to your family genes, and even to your soul.
Somewhere within the system of beliefs, you may be feeling like the only way you can be
fulfilled is to have problems in a relationship. Maybe this is your way of proving to
yourself that you are resilient or tenacious. Perhaps having problems in a relationship
make you feel like you have purpose in life. Maybe, just maybe, you’ve been told by
family and friends that it is “normal” to experience the things that you have been
experiencing in your relationships and there is nothing you can do about it.

These beliefs are affecting your feelings and your actions toward your loved one.
In fact, the beliefs are so strong that it affects the way you carry yourself, the way you
perceive yourself to the opposite sex, and even how you respond to the opposite sex and
it probably goes beyond all of that. The truth is that you don’t HAVE TO continue going through what you are experiencing unless you choose too.


You Are Still Holding Onto Resentments, Regrets, or Grudges
The majority of the time that we spend trying to recreate or reinvent ourselves is
wasted simply because we refuse to let go of resentments or regrets. We usually create
the resentments as a need to protect ourselves from getting hurt by that same person or
the same type of circumstance. Grudges and resentments go hand in hand and if you
remove one, you can easily remove the other. Regrets are things that hold us in a pool of
low self esteem and you know, there isn’t too much that you can get done without good
esteem. Esteem affects your personal power, so the more you dwell on regrets, the more
you relinquish your personal power.

The Women/Men in Your Family Have the Same Type Of Problems
Have you ever had anyone in your family that you looked up to or considered a
role model? Sure you did. Even if you didn’t, the people in your family affected you in
ways that you probably still have yet to comprehend. You can be repeating the life
patterns of your family members. In fact, there could be a part of you that believes that if
certain family members weren’t happy in their love life, then you won’t be or don’t
deserve to be. It can be any number of things as beliefs, feelings, fears, and behaviors are
passed down genetically.

You Don’t Deserve To Have A Good Relationship
Have you ever caught yourself saying “this is too good to be true” or “good things
don’t happen to me”? How about this one: you are experiencing a wonderful time with
your loved one and because you haven’t found anything wrong YET, you are just waiting
for the unthinkable to happen. I could go on with many examples, but I think you get the
idea. The point is that for some reason, on a subconscious level, you don’t believe you
deserve to live a good life. You might even find you’re sabotaging the relationship
because you are afraid of getting hurt or that something was going to go wrong sooner or
later. You just don’t know how to accept good things and good people whole heartedly.
This has a lot to do with self acceptance, self trust, and self love. With all of the
examples that I mentioned above, Theta Healing can remove all of these things and more,
in an instant and then replace it with something more positive, empowering, and life
changing.

If our outer world is a reflection of our inner world, then what parts of ourselves
have we yet to face? Most of you have found a way to cope with the things that have hurt
you. You either ignore it and hope it goes away and pretend it never happened or you
complain about it so much that everyone around you knows about it. In doing these two
things, you are shutting down yourself and not allowing yourself to live life freely.

If you choose to continue living your life not facing your weaknesses or traumas,
then life itself will be your constant reminder that you need to deal with this in order to
move on. The key word here is being able to “move on” and moving on is not ignoring a
situation or jumping into another relationship right away to make the pain go away. If
you cannot take time to be alone to recuperate from a bad relationship then you have yet
to learn what love is and even worse, you have yet to understand your personal power
which was developed even more so from that last relationship.

In the end, you have to consider the quality of life that you want to live. Feeling
good and being happy is an internal process that takes time to develop, but once you
reach that state, the happiness and peace will always be there no matter what happens in
your relationship. Clear up the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual clutter in your
life and then you will attract/find someone who has done the same, and this is what will
allow you to experience a new kind of life, a new kind of love. Besides, after you clear
up your clutter, your standards are going to change and how you feel about what you
want in life will change too. This will create a different aura around you that will bring
you the new life experiences that you desire and deserve.

Lady Finex
Certified Theta DNA Practitioner
www.eternalkween.com

The Power Behind “YOU” is Your Energy
Everything we do is based on an exchange of energy. This is demonstrated
through things such as eating food (as the body converts food into energy it can use),
conversations (sharing ideas or experiences, offering advice, expressing emotions),
activities in the work place (it takes mental and physical energy to be able to follow
through on projects and assignments), and running a family.

We use expressions such as “I have a lot of energy today”, “My energy is really
low today,” or “I just don’t have enough energy”. The interesting fact is that we are
aware of energy already and we know that we have a lot of it or not enough of it. Yet we
only think of it in terms of completing projects or dealing with people. Seldom do we
realize that if we strengthen our Energetic Health that it will affect our approach and the
outcome of various situations in our lives.

All this being said one can understand why some people are sluggish while others
are high energy converters. Energy or life was not meant to be still or resting unless it is
in the uncreative state in which case it just means it is waiting for a conduit or road to
travel so to say, to express itself. So because we have energy all around us that is
expressing or waiting to express itself, we have an unlimited supply around us to help us
shape our life experiences. The type of energy you draw from will shape and mold your
experiences as it creates an energetic grid of expression that now becomes a pattern of
energy in your subconscious that will repeatedly play itself out until a new system is
created. The system is made up on crystal grids of energy that connect you to all ways of
life that communicate amongst themselves. Call it the language of the universe if you
will. The language of the universe is directed by energetic impressions and expressions
and when not consciously directed by the mind of the individual, goes on the program or
system already at hand or default programming in other words.

With all of the above taken into consideration, it is easy to see that the human
body was not made to simply “hold” energy but to transmute, circulate, and distribute
energy. Emotions are the compilation of energies we receive from internal and external
environments that we must learn how to fuse and harmonize so as to have a balanced
experience.

Energy Wellness is living in the awareness of the innate intelligence and wisdom
of the body that is directed by God. It is walking in the knowledge and power of your
multidimensional self that interacts with all life, seen and unseen, in harmony so as to
assist evolution of self, family, friends, and the planet.

There are many states of being. In this sense, "being" has everything to do with
your belief as to what exists in the world around you and how things are done in that
world and how you must function in order to live in that world. We call this
"consciousness" as well. Ones level of conscious awareness has everything to do with the
state of being they came into when they were born and how they evolve from that state.
In order to shift or evolve states of being or consciousness, one has to be
introduced to something new or receive an elaboration of something they were made
aware of. Once new information is received, one must decide if they will hold onto what
they were told or whether to release it into the ethers. If they should decide to hold on, a
domino effect takes place within the thought structure or belief system of that person that
triggers a mass duplication of energy waves from the new information that soon covers
ones energy body and spreads throughout the multidimensional (emotional, mental,
physical, spiritual/energetic) self of that person. This is the LEARNING stage.

When people learn new information and hold on to this information, a spark of
excitement occurs where they begin to test this newfound knowledge to see if it is indeed
true. Conversations are born, questioning the new information against the old, further
inspiring self-reflection, world views, and societal motivations. This is often a very
important stage as now, the old self or old ways of thinking and believing must die away
for the new truth to take form. Old friends are lost while new friends are gained. When
new friends are gained, new experiences take place that encourage the
IMPLEMENTATION of the information. This stage consists of many trials and errors as
the old way of thinking or ego is fighting to remain in existence in the person's life. This
is a time where a lot of inner turmoil appears to exist as the person has to decide if they
will move forward or stay in their place of comfort.

Once a decision is made to move forward, the person has become very serious
about their journey of self evolution. It is now a way of living. Many see you as changed,
different, hard to understand, interesting, or intriguing. It is a newfound space and in this
space lies an inner knowing so that even if you can't express in words what you feel or
have experienced, nothing and no one can move you or get you to change your mind.
This is where you learn to remain centered and grounded in the truth of whom you are
and what your purpose on this planet is, beyond opinions and ideals of others - you know
who you are. You are in the DEVELOPING stages of being and as you develop more and
more, you begin to unfold into newer and higher states of awareness that project a life
you never knew existed.

Learn, implement, and develop is the foundation of Eternalkween. Eternalkween
is the Spirit of Wisdom or Grandmother Wisdom as I like to call her. It is through the
guidance of Grandmother Wisdom that we are able to accept the newness and beauty that
life has to offer. She directs our steps as we clean out what no longer serves us, bring in
that which will assist and fulfill us, and maintain the Divine Order necessary to grow into
our optimum human potential. Let Eternalkween be your home away from home as you
begin the process of living a life you may have thought was impossible. Now is the time
for newness, now is a time for change.

Denika “Lady Finex” Laurie
Certified Theta Healing Practitioner
Energy Wellness Manager
www.eternalkween.com

Never in my life did I believe that I would be on the path that I am on now. At
one point in time, I knew nothing but sadness and despair. I know it probably sounds
cliché, but that is the truth. I wasn’t happy with my life and I didn’t know why. I wasn’t
even sure what life was supposed to have been like, but I knew there was something
missing. As I observed friends and family, I thought to myself, ok, I am doing what they
are doing, but I still feel empty. So I mimicked and copied others around me until I could
copy no more. Eventually I would take the most courageous step in my life… facing
myself.

I had heard that when things happen in your life at a young age that it could affect
your adult life, but I wasn’t sure and I never researched it. Until, that is, my body shut
down in many ways. Little did I know that this was my soul’s cry for help.
Often times in life, we just kind of go along with what is expected of us even
though we may feel deep down inside, that we want something different. Well just how
exactly do we go about getting this “something” different when we don’t even know what
it is we want?

If you take a moment to explore the world around you, outside of the norm, you
will discover some interesting things that have been happening for quite some time that
will definitely change your life. When you get to the point of wanting something
different or just wanting to experience new things, it is the perfect time to explore the
world of personal development.

So, what exactly is personal development you ask? Personal development is
when you take time to strengthen yourself emotionally, mentally, physically, and
spiritually. It is about bringing these aspects of yourself into greater balance so that you
can reach your highest human potential and live a better quality of life.

Hopefully we do things to physically take care of ourselves such as taking
vitamins and nutritional supplements, exercising, and eating healthy. Well, we have to
do the same thing for ourselves emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Our growth and
development does not stop with schooling or our careers even though these things
contribute to our growth. This is where personal development kicks in.
The reason personal development is a good thing is because you get to clear away
those self-sabotaging things that have been keeping you from doing certain things with
your life that you may have always wanted to do. You might want a new career, a new
home, a new body, or to take dance lessons, play an instrument.
Whatever your reason, personal development is the perfect maintenance tool to
keep you running. You can live a good quality of life by using it. You don’t have to just
deal with whatever life dishes out to you. You actually have the power to change things
around.

Usually when a person first begins their journey, they don’t think that there is
much for them to work on. Yet, as they delve deeper into their past or current affairs,
they realize there are a lot of things that happened, that bothered them that they learned
how to cope with. So now, here are all of these coping mechanisms and they run so deep
that a person can be totally in denial.

Personal development, when dealing with mind/emotions, can totally remove ego
and make you look at yourself, your inner self, butt naked. Once that happens you will
be challenged with the now what and who am I and why am I here. These are all natural
and sooner or later everyone ponders on this question. The journey to personal
development leads you to this answer. If you are one that already knows what your life’s
journey is about, then personal development will help you master it.

With all of the above being said, personal development does have different levels.
You have those that read books and write, meditate, and do hobbies. These are simply
nice things that help a person to relax and enjoy themselves. When you take things up a
notch, you began releasing emotional/mental things that have been holding you back. It
could be low self esteem, it could be working on love issues or parent issues, it could be
your health or anything.

The only way to remove limiting belief patterns and to really improve your life
with personal development is by getting to the root of all the beliefs. Once you get to the
root of every issue you just change it and create a more positive one. We do this using
Theta healing.

Theta Healing works on your belief system that is stored in the subconscious
mind. Within the subconscious mind there are 4 belief levels that the limiting beliefs are
removed from. When the limiting beliefs are removed, you are able to move forward
with things in your life that you weren’t able to do so with before.

In addition to that, you have your personal energy or aura that you need to work
on. The aura of a person is the energy you feel from them when you come into contact
with them. It can be direct contact or just being around them, but you do feel something.
You also can end up absorbing some of their negative energy if not careful. Personal
development can teach you how to deal with this in a balanced way. Learning how to
deal with the energy of others and energy of situations is a part of something called
Energy Wellness.

The thing to remember is that it is good to feed your mind with knowledge and
then if possible, follow through with action. It is good to exercise. It is good to do
personal energy exercises too such as chakra balancing or aura cleansing and Reiki. In
addition to that, it is certainly good to meditate, pray, chant or sing, but so long as you do
something to recognize your inner power enough to bring it out. This is a part of your
empowerment and you’re never going to walk in it if you don’t take time to develop it. A
musician develops his talents, the same with an athlete or a dancer. So what are you
doing for yourself? Have you done anything to assist your personal growth? Change
requires planning and action. You add that together with integrity and honesty and some
hard work, and you got yourself an awakened masters.

Learn to be all that you can be. Anything is possible.

Lady Finex
Certified Theta DNA Practitioner
Reiki Master/Holistic Health Counselor/Pracitioner
www.eternalkween.com

What do we say to family and friends and associates on a regular basis so much so that we get trapped in this ritualistic way of being with one another? We see those we care about and keep our conversations shallow, short, one-sided, close minded, criticize, judge one another, express our opinions and then go on. 

Tina tries to comfort while Sarah sobs heavily at Tina's home, "What a jerk! I can't believe he did that to you."

Sarah: "I just don't get it. He is not the man I thought he was. I remember in the beginning of our relationship how things were, how connected we felt to one another. Nobody could tell me that we wouldn't last. I thought he was the perfect man for me."

Tina: "Well, girl, let me tell ya, he certainly had me fooled because I thought you two were the perfect match too."

Sarah: "Why does this always happen to me? I did everything he asked me to do and more! I've always been there for him even when nobody else believed in him!"

Tina: "It just goes to show that all the good men are either married or gay and we get left with the dogs."

Sarah: "Girl, who you tellin? Here I am, trying to do better for myself but it seems that I keep on attracting the same kind of man. I am so tired of this! I just want a good man who can love me for who I am and accepts me for the women I aspire to become. I've never had a man that supported me in my dreams. it's always me supporting him. When do i get my turn at happiness? Most of my friends are married already." she sobs some more....

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Does the above sound even remotely familiar? Many of us meet people, become infatuated with ideas and agendas which are mostly hidden and call it love. When we first meet people we often drift along life on Cloud 9, ignoring all the signs of incompatibility that life shows us because hey, we just KNOW we can make this thing work. After all, he/she is the finest thing you have ever seen! What are we doing to ourselves? What is really going on here when we compromise our standards to execute our self-driven agendas? So yeah, you got some similar interests, you've done some of the same things, you share some of the same beliefs, and have some of the same dreams. Now you equate this as "we both want the same things in life". Is this really so? Maybe or maybe not. What you are not thinking about is the fact that everyone has their own ideals as to how to implement their beliefs which have been mostly shaped by external influences such as mom and dad, your siblings, your friends, and your society (there are several societies within the Matrix) that you fit in. The other thing you must consider is that not everyone is going to be honest about their agendas and how they feel they need to go about finding or creating the perfect mate. See, if your mate was so "perfect" you would just accept him/her for whom they are and not try to influence them or get them to change. Now, perhaps they do have 6 or 7 of the character and qualities that you wrote down on your "mate wish list" but let's be honest here, somewhere along the line, during the experience, you gave in to something.

That "something" that you gave into was your lower self which believes that you will only receive happiness in one or two ways: (1) by giving him/her what she wants; (2) by getting what you want. You are either looking to be taken care of or looking to take care of the other so that you can have a certain amount of control, if not all, within the relationship.

Early Signs of Incompatibility.

Lack of Trust: He/she doesn't trust you because of their past experiences. In this case, here you have all of these wounded people who want you to prove yourself because they basically have not taken the time to connect to their higher selves so that they can learn how to trust themselves to make the right decisions. Even though they say they don't trust people what they are really saying is that they don't know when or when not to trust people because they are not aware of the greater connection they have with life, which communicates to you through feeling, or the Enteric Nervous System (known as the second brain, located in the lining of the gut and connected with Intuition). Everything communicates through vibrational frequencies known as feelings and/or e-motions. When a trust issue arises and you are faced with making the decision and you feel uncomfortable, your higher self is letting you know you need to work this out and this is your chance to overcome this discomfort by accepting WHAT YOU CHOOSE TO EXPERIENCE at that time in your life. Sometimes we choose things because we believe there are no other options or we are too afraid to commit just to avoid making alleged "wrong decisions" and suffering a blow to the ego (i.e. what will my friends/family think about me? I should know better by now). Contrary to popular belief, maturity is NOT based on age, but on one's ability to understand life lessons enough to change one's perspective and act with wisdom. Sometimes one may have to go through the lesson a few times until they are ready to graduate to the next evolutionary stage of consciousness.

So why is Trust an early sign of incompatibility? If one person has already gotten the lesson and is comfortable with their decision making process, it can cause friction or frustration because the couple will never truly be in harmony. One person is left to make all the decisions which means they are the proactive force within the relationship. If both individuals are dealing with trust issues, well then you are headed for disaster and drama city. Somebody will always be paranoid and sleep with one eye open. In doing this, both or neither truly give all of their love.

Unspoken Agendas

Our body of thoughts form patterns which structure our belief systems. The Mental Body, a subtle body which extends just beyond your emotional body, houses these thoughts. For everything you believe you have no control over, illusory bodies or structures of thought form geometric bubbles, so to say, around your physical body. These illusory bodies determine the cycle of your experiences. In other words, what you draw to you, based on the law of attraction and the energies that emit from the earth which is channeled directly into your body to give you what you need.

Let me put this into practical terms for you. You meet a man/woman that you think is the finest thing on the planet and boy oh boy if you could just convince them to be a part of your life, you will live happily ever after. It will be you two against the world if it has to go down that way. The man, a successful entrepreneur, promises you the world. The woman, a strong creative force with vision, promises "traditional" support. Sounds simple, easy, and cool, right? WRONG! The man, has major issues, first he is very set in his ways, he is also an abuser, a charming smooth talker, and an egomaniac. The woman, is very set in her ways, has low self-esteem, is a people pleaser, and tired of running into dead ends. Now this scenario can be switched around - gender is no factor here. Both see the issues within the other, but they want what they want. The man wants a woman to help him maintain his business and raise his children at home and be the King of his castle. The woman wants to be financially stable and she wants to be married and raise her children but wants her voice to be heard. Still sound normal? It probably is, but the point I am making here is that things aren't going to go so smoothly because one is going to try to convince the other to go along with their agenda. One has to give in or get out and guess wha? Sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn't. People will stay in an incompatible relationship for many reasons, finances being the major one whether it is to avoid alimony, child support, or working a job. Other reasons stem from people not wanting to be alone or thinking their biological clock is ticking and they will never find another mate at their age. They may also be worried about what others may think about them.

Bringing the illusory body together with my example: if a person believes they have to accept drama in order to be in a relationship because "there is always going to be something you have to deal with" then this is exactly what they will experience. It's just like the Illusion of poverty - some people believe they have to struggle or survive just to live their lives and so they continue to re-live a life of poverty, over and over and over again.

Three Sides To The Story

When children are born into this world they do not just receive the physical traits of both of their parents, but they also receive the energetic traits that are impressed upon them during conception and their time in the womb. How can this be? You are a multi-dimensional being made up of light or energy. Every part of your being emits and receives energy from every living thing in its environment. Energy comes into your organic vessel or body through the nadis or meridians that meet at specific locations or points in the body which is distributed and expressed through ones emotions. What were you going through in your life when you conceived your child? What were your parents going through? Try this, get a pen and pad and have a talk with both of your parents, if you can, and ask them if they remember what they were going through. Look at the cycles, the patterns, the events, the mind set, the characteristics of both and you will see your reflection. You chose these people for a reason. An agreement was made that they would usher you into this world so that you could receive your life lessons and whatever was unresolved is supposed to get resolved so that you can grow on with your life.

So now that you understand the energy components that make up and effect your experiences and you should be able to see what you need to do to advance to the next level of your life. Don't hold on to grudges and blame the other person for the drama in your life. You have your issues and so does the other person and this creates a new energy between the both of you that if not developed, first internally, then externally through the relationship, will die off. There is your side, then the other person's side, then what is REALLY going on, on an vibrational level.

So who is to blame? There is no such thing as blame since you both made a conscious decision and effort to have a relationship together for a time. You wanted to experience life with that person and vice versa. You merged through sexual relations and created a unique experience that is like no other. If your break up is fresh, you will have a hard accepting responsibility for your decision. If it has been some time, this is the moment to take to look at what you have been holding on to and what you need to transition out of. I know sometimes this very process can be scary because you have to be honest with yourself about your secret feelings and hidden personal beliefs, you know the things you don't like to talk about to other people. If you are a parent, the more you take time to heal, the more you break the vibrational cycle. When you evolve, you end up giving your children energetic boosts of self progression and what could be more priceless?

At this point and time in your life, you must understand that you must make up, and I do literally mean "make-up" your mind just like you would a story or a song. Make up your mind as to what you want to experience in life, develop your energy wellness enough to maintain the vibrational harmony of that which you seek and unto you will come the riches of life - the things not found in fairy tales, but oh so true.

With so much sex in the world, it is no wonder that so many of our youth are wildin out. The truth of the matter is that they are simply reenacting the things they see adults do, say and believe. There is a collective consciousness that exists within each family, neighborhood, community, city, county, state, country, continent, and then of course the world. It is so much easier for adults to point the finger and blame others for the state we see today. The saying "Become the change you want to see in the world" has become nothing more than a cliche that humanitarians, philosophists, intellectuals, and revolutionaries say to calm the heart of their passifying judgment. For one to actually become this change they so want to see, they have to be willing to not only embrace their faults and weaknesses, but they also have to be willing to step outside of the box to see any fault in what they have been supporting, using as their foundation to induce their self-centered agendas. The truth of the matter is that not many are ready to conquer their weaknesses and faults, but more are willing to justify it or explain it away. What then have we become in this world of vanity when all paths have failed us, all ideals have mislead us, all measures of faith have led us nowhere but in circles that are driven beneath the waters of deceit? Who are we kidding? The path to self-righteousness leads all astray and down a road less traveled by the Wise Ones. We walk in bitterness thinking we can change the world. We walk in peace thinking that by no action or by not disturbing the waters of ignorance that we have actually done our families a service. When will we return to our rightful state of inheritance? Have we even proven ourselves worthy of Life when we do nothing but through it all away for vanity and self gratification? We allow our children to be polluted by the wrath of unconscious methods of living and being with one another. We do nothing but wallow in ignorance when so much that our elders and ancestors have fought for is slipping away, right beneath our feet. It is up to each and everyone of us to educate ourselves about ourselves and then to pass this knowledge on to our children. The wisdom of Life awaits us.. Won't you please join me in this journey?

THE PATH TO ETERNAL LIFE...

when taken seriously will lead you into the deeper mysterious teachings that have been kept, hidden away from our ancestors. The greatest feat that they had to overcome was not knowing that the All Knowing exists within them. Each and every one of them. Each and every one of us. That's it. When we choose to let our emotions (energy in motion) run ramped, we choose to walk in struggle. When we choose to let our energies direct our actions, we walk like fools. For this matter we must address the issue concerning sexual energy or life force energy that has taken control of the world we live in. One need not seek books written by humans to understand, see the living library that exists within yourself. The blood of life runs strong through your veins, pumping every ounce of information you have ever sought after. The etymology dictionaries defines blood as -  "to swell, gush, spurt," or "that which bursts out" (cf. Goth. bloþ "blood," bloma "flower" or "to thrive, bloom". I decided to look up the definition for bloom and Websters has many definitions, but they all say something like "state of having the buds opened". You know what? I couldn't stop there, I had to keep going. So I looked up the definition of bud and the American Heritage Dictionary says: An asexual reproductive structure, as in yeast or a hydra, that consists of an outgrowth capable of developing into a new individual.

After reading all of that and seeing the words bloom, blossom, flower, and bud there was only one conclusion to come to: Much like photosynthesis which is defined as the act of capturing this energy (from the sun) with various pigments (such as chlorophyll) which absorb different wavelengths of light or frequencies - We humans do almost the same thing. As we engage in life activities we CAPTURE energy with our MELANIN pigment which absorbs different wavelengths of light or frequencies too (See you tube Dr. Jewel Pookrum for deeper understanding of melanin). The energy or emotions become personified through us and chooses a form of EX-press-ion through the conscious state of the individual. The major energy centers or chakras (correctly pronounced chuk-rahs) or spinning wheels of light (energy) have also been symbolized by flowers for many generations. The closed flower or bud represents the closed or emotionally clogged chakra. The open flower represents the opened and free flowing chakra. Yet, some opened chakras can be blown out of proportion, literally from trauma, which brings me back to the sacral chakra that governs many things, but especially our sexual energy. An imbalanced in the sacral chakra results in excesses. These excesses manifest themselves in the form of addictions, greed, violence, anger and a consuming feeling of dissatisfaction. In balance, the sacral chakra facilitates rites of passage - smooth physical growth, healthy sexual expression, positive body language, clarity in understanding our needs versus our wants, tempering of desire, utilizing our ambition/passion for higher purpose (rather than base or primitive desire).

How is it then that the issues concerning sexual abuse and exploitation are not taken seriously and remains inconclusive with the spiritual and cultural communities? Many focus on kegels, fabulous fellatio, or seminal fluid retention for increased gratification rather than solutions to heal the many sexually abused boys and girls that wonder aimlessly in our very own homes and neighborhoods. How can any of us determine a path of righteousness and liberation without seeking to balance our imbalanced chakras? How can we hear the spirit of discernment when we have all of these unresolved issues like anger, overpowering and in some cases directing our intelligence? How can we operate as a unit when our overactive sexual energy is directing our desires and confusing our attractions and disturbing our dreams even? What have we become when we put down our children for re-enacting the things they see and hear us do? Our children are having sex - period. They are doing exactly what we have taught them to do. Are you, the parent, willing to educate yourself about yourself enough to save your own child? It can be done. Understanding the sexual energy is only the beginning, there is much more that has to be accomplish, but at least after reading this you hopefully are not pointing the finger and passing judgment on the children that are crying out for help.

Stay tuned for part 3 as we journey deeper and finally go over the techniques for balancing out the sacral chakra and refining the raw sexual energy.

I recall the days when I was a teenager, hanging with my friends, doing my best to resist peer pressure with no reference point to avail me. My mother and every adult in my life shunned teen sex but they never told me and other teens what we could do in its stead. They never even took into consideration the sexual abuse that most teens face when they are younger and how that greatly influences their sexual energy. Instead, the preach shame and guilt upon the child that engages in sex at an early age. By thus doing, the child retreats into an imbalanced form of self-expression and living that is interpreted as rebellion.

The lack of self-knowledge of the parent and by the parent puts the family at a disadvantage of balance and harmony because they know not what other options are available to their children. They know not about the energetic anatomy of themselves and thus, cannot begin to teach it to their children. With overactive or underactive sexual energy radiating from the adults who run the society at large, it can be a confusing time of puberty for the children.

CONCEPT OF CONCEPTION

Most people believe that fetuses only inherit the biological make up of parents and fewer are aware of the fact that they inherit emotional habits and patterns of both parents as well.
This also includes mental and spiritual inheritances as well as everything is energy. When dealing with the human body, areas of science such as Quantum Physics, PNI (psychoneuroimmunology), and metaphysics teach us that everything is energy. There are also ancient spiritual teachings that support these "new found" beliefs such as Taoism, Buddism, Kemeticism, and many more "isms". But before you stop reading, all one needs to do is study the human body. There are many talks of electro-magnetic frequencies within the medical field. The instruments that are used to measure biological functions (bio-feedback machines) of the body are based on frequencies emitted from the body. Frequencies, as defined by American Heritage Science Dictionary is "The rate at which a repeating event occurs, such as the full cycle of a wave. Frequencies are usually measured in hertz." Electromagnetic is defined as "pertaining to or exhibiting magnetism produced by electric charge in motion; [electromagnetic energy]." So here you have the frequency which represents the rate at which something is in motion and the electromagnetism which is the "kind" of energy being emitted.

So where am I going with all of this? How is it that doctors are aware of the energy emitted from an individual, but the individual is not aware of the energy it emits itself? How could we allow something, that is literally right in front of our face, get passed us? As humans, we give off energy in the form of vibes. Ever go somewhere and get an uncomfortable feeling? The feeling you experienced was the manifestation of the energies present in that space and your own personal energy interacting with it. You either feel it or you don't. Just stay with, I am taking you somewhere with all of this.

So now, here we are, as adults, not aware of the many different energies that are present within the human body. No knowledge of the main energy centers in the body known as chakras. No knowledge of the channels of energy that flow through the body known as meridians and nadis and no knowledge of the fact that our thoughts direct our emotions which are pure energy. The thought itself is pure energy as well. We have several energy systems within the body that we just simply never learn about unless we are willing to take a step and read uncommon material.

So as parents, who are pure energy, who have inherited the energetic makeup of their parents and so on and so on and so on, we are literally just passing down what is already existent in ourselves. Each child that you have represents your state of consciousness during the time of conception, including what was going on with you emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually whether you were aware or in denial or not. Your child is carrying everything about you in one form or another within themselves. What they have to do, is evolve from that state of consciousness through a process called soul evolution. Life is giving them a chance to sharpen and overcome the things that you, the parent, did not overcome. Life is giving them a chance to break or transmute the energetic frequency that has been passed down from generations. This is what many refer to as generational curses which really isn't a curse since one gets the chance to eliminate it for the future generations.

Sexual energy, one of the strongest, if not the strongest, energies in the body, is so powerful that it actually creates another life. The act of creating life almost holds no significance in America as it has taken a back seat to self-gratification, and is no longer considered a sacred act. We have something called chakras (pronounced chuck-rahs) through out body and beyond. Each houses certain energies to sustain the life of our organs and filter out the energy from the planet that we receive to support our internal life systems. With some of us, our sexual chakra (called the sacral chakra) is already active especially if one has been raped, molested, or incested. Otherwise, this energy awakens during the state of puberty and needs to be directed by transformation into a more refined energy. When we tell our children to not have sex, ignoring the fact that this energy is awakened, we are telling them to suppress that energy and it further attributes to their malignant behavior. Energy, including sexual energy, must stay in motion and the minute it ceases circulation or movement, is when dis-ease begins to set in, manifesting first in the energetic subtle bodies that inter-penetrate our physical body, then affecting our moods and behaviors through our thoughts and emotions. There is a solution, and no, I'm not referring to the children actually having sex. I am referring to sexual circulation. It only takes 10 minutes a day to do, in order for one to maintain their sanity (we all know what it is like to feel horny and not be satisfied).

Stay tuned for part 2 of this blog as I go into sexual circulation and its benefits and how we can direct our pre-teens and even ourselves to use this technique as an alternative. Remember, we cannot tell our children, or anyone, to NOT do something without giving them another option - or a point of reference.

Have you suffered from ridicule, sarcastic jokes, or just down right cruelty from your family or long term friends simply because you stopped eating meat or stopped wearing chemical hair, or changed your religious beliefs? What about how you raise your children? Do your family or friends disagree with how you discipline your children?

A little of my story.. When I finally decided to grow my hair natural and stop wearing perms, I was "rebuked in the name of Jesus".. My momma told me that the Devil had gotten a hold of me. Other women looked at me and made crazy remarks about my use to be long hair that was now short.. Some told me my momma should slap me in my face. Others said I should be ashamed of myself.

When I changed my diet to vegan.. mannnnnnnn people treated me like I had stole something. They would just stare at me in the break room at work and question me about my food. I never told them they were unhealthy, never bothered them..

We will be talking about this on the Goddess Round Table as well as some solutions as to how to overcome the ridicule and what to do.. Some good rebuttals and more..

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But I Love Him

 
            I was afraid to go home but I was determined to take control of my life again.  In order for me to do that I would have to face my enemy and he was not just going to walk away.  There would be a fight and I had nobody to call on to help me get my soon to be ex boyfriend out of my house.  Yet, I made a decision, even if he tried to kill me, I was not going to back down, I was going to hold my ground. 

             I remember the first time we met.  He had that Denzel persona about him.  He was a very handsome man and very charming.  he came into my life during a time of serious chaos and disorder.  I had been homeless with my family, jobless, and raped.  I had no self confidence, no self love, and no sense of direction with my life.  I had just turned 21 years old and I was living in NYC.  This city was eating me alive and he taught me how to survive the streets.  He was my first true love and my first heartbreak.  I trusted his opinions so much that I wouldn’t even go shoe shopping without him. 

             He tormented me every night, pinning me down and throwing me around like a rag doll so that I could not move, he would say the most horrid and devastating things beyond imagination, whispering them softly in my ear for several hours at a time.  Meanwhile, I squirmed and tried to get him off of me and would scream for him to let me go.  It only made him hurt me more and for longer periods of time.  When he was holding me down, he was constantly picking arguments and criticizing my every action.  Making false accusations about my telephone conversations and my whereabouts.  Often speaking about the taintedness of women and how he was lucky he found me before I became tainted.  He said he was going to conform me to be the type of woman that he thought I should be.  That’s exactly what he told my father face to face and my father said and did nothing.  Crying was almost as normal as breathing.  I was depressed and I didn’t know what to do.  Here I was in love with a man that I thought just never had a good woman and I figured that maybe if I could him how faithful I was and how supportive I was of him that maybe he would come around.  I did everything I could think of to prove to him that I loved him and that I wouldn’t hurt him.  I even supported him financially since he was having a hard time finding a job.  Later on I would find out that him not finding a job was just his was of running game.  No matter what I did, he was always displeased.  He would slap me or man handle me if he thought I was going to resist him.  If he couldn’t get me to do what he wanted then his attacks would become more vicious.  I wasn’t use to this, I didn’t know how to handle it and I didn’t know what to do.  My mother, although she kept telling me to leave him, was just as controlling and wouldn’t let up on me either.  She made sure that she told me her opinion of me.  Often telling me that I was not behaving like a woman of God and whatever else came to her mind.  Between the two of them, I was losing my mind.  I lost all sense of how I was supposed to live my life and nothing made sense any more.  I remember holding my head between my hands and screaming, nobody was around me at the time.  I struggled to get a hold of myself.  I laid on the floor for what seemed like hours, numb and motionless.  Just as thoughts of suicide were creeping in my mind, for the hundredth time, another thought out thought the suicidal thoughts.  I immediately rose to my feet and pulled out this book I had on prosperity and began to read the affirmation that were at the end of the book.  Most of the affirmations spoke of how to be in tune with the creator and relying on the creator for all ones needs.  I sat there for about an hour going over all of the affirmations giving them my full attention and actually feeling and believing them.  I felt a lot better and my tears had stopped.  I began to say my affirmations everyday and pretty soon, I began to write my own affirmations.  Since I was feeling stronger just from saying them, I decided to record them on tape so that I could listen to them before I fell asleep each night.  I saw and felt my sanity coming back to me immediately.  I was able to focus better.  I was more emotionally balanced and my boyfriend couldn’t manipulate me like he had been doing all along.  It was time for me to make a choice and I didn’t want him in my life any longer.  I told my boyfriend that he had 30 days to move out of my apartment.  He did not respond.  What was interesting is that during those 30 days, he found a job and was out a lot and whenever he was home, he didn’t speak very much to me.  That was all the time I needed to prepare myself as much as possible for the 3-hour fight that was going to take place at the end of the 30 days. 

             When I picked my son up from after school care, I told him that no matter what he heard to not come out of his room.  I sent my son to his room.  My boyfriend was in the living room.  I went right to him and before I could say anything he told me that he found an apartment two blocks away.  I told him that it was over between us and he needed to leave immediately.  That’s when he lost his temper.  We fought in every corner of the house.  He kept telling me it was just growing pains that we were going through and we would be alright.  At one point he grabbed me and pulled me down to the floor and held me close to him.  He began to rub my head, softly and kiss me softly on my head and he told me we were going to be just fine.  That’s when I grabbed the phone and hit him right in the middle of his forehead.  Blood spewed out.  He screamed at me, and grabbed his head.  Somehow I got the phone and ran into the other room to call the police.  I quickly locked the door behind me, but that wouldn’t stop him from trying to get me.  He got a hammer from the other room and proceeded to break the door knob.  The police was on their way.  There was nowhere to go and nowhere to hide, and nothing I could use for self defense.  He broke into the room and grabbed me by my neck and threw me across the room onto the floor.  “You stupid little bitch, you think the police can keep you away from me?!?  He threw me down the stairs, but I caught myself halfway.  It didn’t matter he was right behind me now.  He grabbed me by my hair and slammed my face into the wall.  I thought my life was over at that moment, but he took his finger and ran it across the freshly cut open wound on his forehead that I had placed there just moments before I reached the room.  “You made me bleed so now I’m going to put my blood on you so you will see how it feels!”  The fighting went on and twenty minutes or so later, the police arrived. 

 Walking Back Into Sanity

             The above story, which is true, is an example of a traumatic experience that I had to confront from my past.  It was one of the single most terrible relationships I ever had.  It changed my life forever.  I allowed it to affect the way I looked at men and religion.  I knew I had to get to the bottom of this experience.  So I began to do a series of self-reflection and questioning.  I had to get specific with my questions.  I asked myself, what attracted me to that man?  Ok, so I thought he was very handsome.  I loved his self-confidence.  I also liked his style.  What attracted me to him the most however, was the fact that he was able to see my sadness and he saw the truth behind my smile.  So I felt he understood me.  I had never been in a committed relationship and I choose him to experience it with.  I also wanted to show him that in spite of all of the bad experiences he had with other women, that I would not hurt him. 

 
After I figured out why I got with him, I had to understand why I choose an abusive man to experience love with.  That seemed pretty desperate to me.  I was only 21 years old at that time and I certainly should not have felt desperate.  Yet, when I thought about it, I remember that I had never felt loved by my family or anyone else.  Now, technically, I knew my family cared about me but I didn’t feel the love and I didn’t see it.  Here I was going through something terrible and the only one that would talk to me and try to help me was my mother.  My mother’s tactics were so overbearing that I could not deal with her.  It felt like she was trying to control me as much as he was.  My father was aware of the situation and never said a thing to me about the situation.  That upset me very much.  Here was the root of my problem – my parents.  

             Before I continue, it is necessary to note that as children, we learn by example.  We do what we see adults do.  We create our perceptions and truths based on the experiences the adults around us create.  Without the proper guidance, If there is no one to cultivate these beliefs they go own to become a part of our belief system. 

             I also had to check my ego.  I was being stubborn and hard headed.  Nobody could tell me anything.  I knew what I was doing and he really wasn’t that bad if I could just convince him that I was really a faithful woman, after all I had did nothing. My mother had warned me and even though I didn’t appreciate her strong approach, I should’ve listened.  I had friends that told me to leave him alone, but I was being stubborn and ignored what they told me to.  So there were warning signs, even besides my friends and family warning me.  That man’s twisted way of thinking and psychological controlling ways, was enough to tell me to run and don’t look back.

 Dealing with My Weaknesses

             To me it was obvious that I had no self love, self respect, self worth, or self-discipline.  I just had no sense of myself at all.  I was making all the wrong choices.  I had no guidance.  I had no clue how to go about living my life better.  I had to accept the fact that I didn’t know what direction I was heading for in my life.  One thing was for sure, I was tired of crying, tired of being taking advantage of so easily, and tired of being misunderstood.  I decided that if my life was going to change for the better, then I would have to equip myself with more knowledge.  I would speak what I felt with honesty even if the other person would not like what I was going to say.  I had to toughen up.  One of the reasons people were able to take advantage of me was because I wanted to be accepted.  As a child I went through a lot of alienation and I didn’t want to experience that as an adult.  So, I had to let go of the idea of trying to be accepted by everyone because I noticed when I did that, I was doing whatever I could to please other people.  I was definitely a people pleaser.  Being a people pleaser had served me no good. 

Cleaning out my skeletons

             Even though I had been taken advantage of  by many people, I had not exactly been an angel myself.  My honesty often hurt people.  I was very spontaneous and if I saw something that I liked, I went after it.  I had to take responsibilities for the things that I had done to people that hurt them.  I am a believer of that saying:   as you sow, so shall you reap or what goes around comes around.  I did not honor myself therefore nobody else honored me.  I did not respect myself and therefore, nobody else respected me.  I was too floaty at times, all over the clouds.  I had no grounding.  

             I knew it was time for me to pull out my pen and paper and really take a look at my life, my thoughts, my actions.  If I was going to equip myself with knowledge, then I needed to have something tangible in front of me to look at to say, this is what you have been doing and as a result of all of these things, this is what it has led up to.  The one thing that I can say is that when you put everything on paper, well before I even say that, I will say, if you can honesty write down on paper the things you’ve done to other people, and how you were with yourself, it might not be a pretty picture.

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